Here are a list of my favorite books at this moment.... there are many more, but these are the ones that jumped off the bookshelf when I started to make this page... and yes, they're ALL by women. Call me a bastard, but I JUST can't help it... can't seem to read anything by men these days. I figure that I'm just making up for those 18 years I spent in school, when ALL that I was supposed to read was male authors. The way I figure it, I'll be caught up in 12 or so years, and I'll be free to read boys again... :)

Funny thing... this has actually because the single MOST controversial thing on this page (next to the fact that I eat honey), and I'm not sure I understand why it bothers everybody so much. Like I said, I spent 18 years in school... I've read Faulkner, I've read Salinger, I've read Shakespeare, I've read Hemingway..... and now it is time for me to submerge myself into reading only women's voices. I never ever said, "All men suck and they can't write for shit!!!! They are idiots! I hate them all!!" I just don't want to read any AT THIS MOMENT. Why is this an issue? Also, if I'm going to go out and BUY a book, I'd simply rather support a woman author, the same way I'd rather support a woman musician, doctor, or any women owned business in general. We're still only making 70 cents for the male dollar, and we need to help each other out! :) Besides, the fact is that, in general, I can identify more easily with women's perspective. I just want to read stuff by girls.. IS THAT SO WRONG?!?! :)

This is IMPORTANT NEWS!!! Women's Bookstores are disappearing rapidly thanks to Barnes & Noble, Borders and Amazon.com. If you are like the majority of women and you can't get to a women's (or even an independent) bookstore, here is the solution. Amazon Bookstore is the oldest independent women's bookstore in North America. It was around for over twenty years before Amazon.com came and stole their name. So you can go to their website and conveniently order books.... by doing so, you will be helping to keep one of the few remaining women's bookstores in business! I do it.. you should too! You can also order book online from these other stores. If you know of any other women's bookstore that lets you order online, let me know and I'll mention them here as well.

New Words Books, which is a women's bookstore in Cambridge.

Blue Stockings Books: the actual store is in NYC.

Boadecia's Books: North Berkeley, CA

Her Story Books: Hellam, PA

Brigit Books: St. Petersburg, FL

Outbooks GLBT Bookstore: Calgary, AB

Oh, and if you want to give ME any reading suggestions, I'm always up for that! I really DO actually read what you guys tell me to read!

A * next to a title means that it was a Random Girl Web Viewer Recommended Book!

Nonfiction

*Woman: An Intimate Geography Natalie Angier

Wow! I learned more from this book than any book I can think of in recent years! The whole time I was reading it, I kept spouting out with, "The Natalie Angier book said this..... Oh, this so interesting; I read it in the Natalie Angier book...."

Anyway, this is a book about every aspect of being a woman, written by a scientist. It's fascinating and not difficult to understand. Believe me, I am not Science Girl, but I was really into it. I now posess more knowledge about the clitoris and orgasms and hormones and breast milk than I ever thought I would!

Paula Isabel Allende

This is a memoir of Isabelle Allende, who is one of my favorite authors ever... and it is even better than any of her works of fiction, IMO. It was started as a letter to her daughter, who was in a coma, to tell her of the family history, "So that when you wake up, you will not feel so lost." I think this is the only book I have ever read that has made me laugh out loud and cry... all on the same page.

The Body Project Joan Jacobs Brumberg

Phenomenal... this is a history of women's relationships with their bodies, from the days of the corset to the days of the waif. It confirmed many things that I had noticed AND gave me insights that would not have occurred to me.

The Menopause Industry Sandra Coney

I'm so glad this book exists. Although menopause is a few decades away, I'd heard so much about this book that I thought I should read it NOW. I'm glad I did! It tells of the many ways in which the "medical establishment exploits women" and how we're all basically just pawns of the pharmaceutical companies. The focus is clearly menopause, but it also helps you see how the medical industry is manipulating ALL women. Read it, and then pass it on to every women that you know between the ages of 35 and 50.

Adios, Barbie Orphira Edut

Hmmmm, I'm detecting a theme here... :) This is a collection of essays by women on body and identity.... more specifically "women who have chosen to ignore, subvert or redefine the dominant beauty standard in order to feel at home in their bodies." I'm glad that this book is out there... it was very reaffirming for me. An extra bonus is that is has an essay by Nomy Lamm... oh, how I love her!

* The Guerilla Girls Bedside Companion to the History o Western Art The Guerilla Girls

An essential for any art history human out there... this will both make you laugh and piss you off. Plus, it give much info on women artist who have not received enough attention. I'm embarrassed how many I hadn't heard of... and I was an Art History major!

Women as Revolutionary Agents of Change Shere Hite

Well, I can honestly say that this book changed my life. For a while, I was determined that I wouldn't date anyone else ever again who hadn't read AND agreed with it! :) Hite conducted many many surveys and her findings challenge many assumptions about women, sexuality and relationships. It helped me feel MUCH less freakish in my sexuality, and I suspect it might help many others as well!

The Curse: Confronting the Last Unmentionable Taboo: Menstruation Karen Houppert

Miki mentions ANOTHER book about menstruation? How shocking! Well, this was a pretty informative book. The first section about dioxins was the most powerful. It scared the hell out of me and I already knew about the horrors of dioxins in tampons.

The chapter on Menstruation Counterculture had me torn.. on one hand, I was glad that she wrote so much about my friend Harry at the Museum of Menstruation... on the other hand, she isn't the nicest to him and I think she misjudged him greatly... besides, she was apparently a FREAK when she visited the museum and dug through his drawers and cabinets, so I wanted to hate her... But then I was really suprised to see that she quoted my old menstruation page (on page 199) as evidence that there IS hope for the future of menstruation. My ego was patted, and I decided to love her and her book.

Failing at Fairness Myra Sadker

This is a must read for ANY teacher/education student/parent. It exposes the widespread presence of gender bias in classrooms. You'll be appalled at how bad it is!

Potential Ariel Schrag

I've read Ariel's other 2 books, "Definition" and "Awkward," and I enjoyed them all, but tis is my favorite! It's a big ol' comic book that chrnocles her junior year in highschool, dealing mostly with her coming out as a dyke, and her relationships with friends and family. I could still very much relate to it, even though I'm an old hag who has been out of highschool for almost a decade now.

* Tipping the Scales of Justice: Fighting Weight-Based DIscriminationr Sondra Solovay

This book enraged me at parts. After the first chapter, I almost threw it across the room because I was disgusted at the biases against fat people that t deals with. It's a must for any fat activist to read!

Red Flower Dena Taylor

I think this book is out of print, which sucks, since it's the best book on menstruation that I've ever read... and I've read many, let me tell you! :) If you ever had the feeling that menstruation shouldn't been seen as a dirty, shameful thing, then seek out this book!

The Passionate Mistakes and Intricate Corruption of One Girl in America Michelle Tea

I was all excited to read this, since I saw Michelle with Sister Spit at MWMF last summer... and I sat right near her at Camp Trans, so, like, I "know" her. :) Anyway, I totally and completely identified with the first half of this book, from the Catholic school.. to hanging out with the Goth kids... to coming out as bi and wanting nothing but a girlfriend, but always ending up dating some boy instead. Of course when she takes up prostitution, ummmm, I stopped identifying so much, but I figured that it's good for me to read things that challange my world view. This book is really funny and hard to put down. I was actually in the middle of reading a different book, but I skimmed the first page of this book, and I couldn't stop reading. I finished it that same day.

A Hunger So Wide and So Deep Becky Thompson

This is the most unusual (and hence, best) book that I have ever read on eating disorders. It's a cross-cultural and multiracial look at women's eating problems. Generally, they are stereotyped that the problem of middle-class, straight white girls, but Thompson does research on lesbians, women of color, and women of different socio-economic backgrounds. The links she makes between eating problems and recism, homophobia, and physical, emotional or sexual abuse were striking.

Fat!So? Marilyn Wann

Wooo hooo! A whole book on one of my most important issues.. fat oppression. This book kicks ass... gets rid of all of those fat misconceptions that we all have "But, it's SO UNHEALTHY!" and informs about fat discrimination that you might not be aware of, like the inability to get medical insurance. This book will make everyone feel better about their body. Damn, it made me excited to turn 40, when I will surely follow in the footsteps of all of the women in my family and get nice and fat. :)

Fiction

The Handmaid's Tale Margaret Atwood

Could not put it down! Atwood depicts a future society... of what could happen if we let THE MAN take control. It's brilliant.

* The Eleanor Roosevelt Girls Bonnie Bluh

This book traces the lives of a group of women friend from 1937 - 1994. I got totally sucked into it, and I finished the whole thing on a flight from NJ to CA. Then I sat there sad for the last 20 minutes of my flight, because I didn't want it to be over.

Egalia's Daughters Gerd Brentenberg

This is it... this is my FAVORITE book ever, so if you only read one book from this page, let it be this one. Brantenberg creates a society in which the wim (women) dominate, while the menwim (men) must stay home as housebounds, caring for the children "After all, it is the menwim who BEGET the children", curling their beard bow and donning pehoes (kind of like a penis bra). I laughed out loud, and it made me think of things that I hadn't before... and in certain scenes, I actually applauded the book. Go get it. Now. and then, make all of your friends read it!

The Complete Hothead Paisan Diane DiMassa

Ahhh... I was already familiar with the rage of Hothead Paisan, the Homicidal Lesbian Terrorist, but having all of the comics put together is just grand! After I read the whole collection, I went around kicking ass nonstop for the next few weeks!

Geek Love Katherine Dunn

This is one wacky-ass book... I totally loved it! I'm not generally into the whole sideshow freak thing, but this bizarre tale of a carnival family certainly captured my attention. It's kind of twisted, but fascinating. Random people had been telling me to read it for a about a decade.. and I'm glad that I finally remembered it while I was actually IN the bookstore!

The Vagina Monologues Eve Ensler

A whole book of monologues about vaginas.. what more could you ask for? :)

* Stone Butch Blues Leslie Feinberg

Damn.. if you ever want to REALLY appreciate being a dyke in the post-Stonewall era, pick this book up! It's a great reminder that it wasn't always "no big deal" for a girl to kiss a girl.

Fried Green Tomatoes at the Whistle Stop Cafe Fannie Flagg

Yes, the movie was pretty good... but, of course, the book is better, if only because it doesn't pussy foot (so to speak) around the lesbian theme, like the movie does.

* Like Being Killed Ellen Miller

This was the best book I read in 1999. I couldn't stop reading.. it was a SEVERE case of it.. "I have to pee, but I can't stop reading" "I'm starving and I want to make dinner, but I can't stop reading" "Sorry, I can't hang out with you now.. I need to keep reading."

I almost don't want to say anything about it, since I won't do it justice. I'll suffice to say that it's about a woman in NYC, her relationships with various people (most importantly, her roommate) and drug culture. Some of it was really disturbing to me, since I'm a wuss ("I wanted to cover my eyes like I do in the movies, but I couldn't because, uh, it's a book") but it was just an incredible book.

The Hundred Secret Senses Amy Tan

I've read all of Tan's books, and this one is the favorite. It's really, really funny, the character of Kwan is classic, and it made me want to believe in reincarnation!

Possessing the Secret Joy Alice Walker

Everybody has to love Alice Walker... but this one is a favorite because it deals with female genital mutilation, which is one of my issues. It's a really powerful book, and you just might like it BETTER than The Color Purple. :)

Here are some other books that I pretty much liked and that you may like also. Some of them I didn't love enough to write a whole paragraph about, and some I USED to have a paragraph about, but I moved the book down here when I added more book, in the interest of space.

Nonfiction

"A Girls Guide to Taking over the World" edited by Karen Green and Tristan Taormino

"School Girls" by Peggy Orenstein

"Listen Up. Voices from the Next Feminist Generation" edited by Barbara Findlen

* "Cunt" by Inga Muscio

"Where the Girls Are: Growing Up Female in the Mass Media" by Susan Douglas

*"The Liars' Club" by Mary Karr

*"8 Ball Chicks" by Gini Sikes

* "Valencia" Michelle Tea

* "India's Bandit Queen" Mala Sen

* "The Last Time I Wore A Dress" Daphne Scholinski

"Wild Child" by Chelsea Cain

Fiction

"The House of Spirits" by Isabel Allende

"The Temple of my Familiar" by Alice Walker

"Rubyfruit Jungle" by Rita Mae Brown

"Confessions of a Failed Southern Lady" by Florence King

"Shark Dialogues" by Kiana Davenport

*"Flaming Iguanas" by Erika Lopez

*"Po Man's Child" by Marci Blackman

* "Kitchen" by Banana Yoshimoto

"Daughter of Fortune" by Isabel Allende

"Like Water for Chocolate" by Laura Esquivel

* "The House on Mango Street" by Sandra Ciseros

Books that I did not like (or could not even make it through) so do not suggest them to me

* "The Female Man" by Johanna Russ

"Beloved" by Toni Morrison

* "Blood and Guts in Highschool" by Kathy Acker

Anything by Jeanette Winterson

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